Please keep signal-boosting my dear friend Fran’s fundraising campaign, folks.
I want my friend around for a long time. And I’mma keep posting about this and encouraging you to post about it till she reaches her goal.
Help writer and activist Fran Varian survive and obtain life sustaining health care while writing her book about women & the health care system in the US.
In Fran’s own eloquent words:
“I have made peace with the fact that I live with a heart infection that will take my life, even though it will always make me angry that this infection is curable. And that the wealthiest nation on the planet makes certain antibiotics so expensive people cannot afford them even to save their own lives. But I’m not quite ready to go anywhere yet. And a cardiologist can very likely help me manage my heart damage and live a much healthier existence in the present moment… I’m asking for $6500 to live off of for the next year to 15 months. This would enable me to see the specialists I need to see, find and maintain a relationship with a good primary care provider and maybe access some pain relief in the form of bodywork for the first time in many years.”
Fran, I am angry, too, and I am with you in this fight. You are asking for so little in the grand scheme of things. You deserve this ten-fold, twenty-fold, FIFTY-fold.
Everyone, PLEASE repost Fran’s request and give what you can.
Story Time:
So I had the amazing, weird, absolutely thrilling & utterly wonderful privilege of volunteering for Kate Bornstein’s National Queer Arts Fest shows pretty much every summer when I was a teenager (from roughly the ages of 15-19). Summer vacation didn’t mean, say, Beach Time for me — it meant NQAF Time, and it especially meant Kate Time.
Those volunteer shifts were the BEST education in queer theater I could’ve ever asked for. They are largely responsible for why I do the work in queer arts community that I still do today.
All of that said, this is actually my favorite Kate story:
So, I’m 30 now. I ran into Kate and a few of her friends at Cupcake Royalle when I was in Seattle this summer. She hugged me like an old friend, and we talked about my days volunteering for her when I was a wee thing (I was surprised and touched she remembered me after so many years, honestly). Then she gave me the best cruisey eye I have ever been blessed to receive, and purred “And as your Auntie, can I just say? MY, how you’ve grown!” And then she winked at me.
It was dirty and sweet and pervy and familial and tender and, above all, so, so dear. I will always remember just how much that wink made me grin and blush.
I want Kate to be giving that wink to people well into her hundreds. Just sayin’.
There are people that exist in your life and they are just it for you. From the moment you meet them, you know, “Yes. Yes. This is it.” I remember the first time I came across the phrase “kindred spirit” when I was 8 years old, reading Anne of Green Gables. They are rare and beautiful people in your life and they are everything.
Andy (boy on the left) is one of those people for me (girl on the right). Ever since we met at Camp Trans 2009, he has been my platonic soul mate. We call each other “brother” and we mean it.
In the last three months, both of our lives have fallen apart. Some of those things happened in tandem (one of our best friends killed themselves in December) and some of those things have been completely separate (he got in a 4 car pileup just days after the funeral; I watched my neighbor bleed to death in her driveway last Saturday). But he needs me. And I need money.
I live in Oakland. He lives in Michigan. A couple of weeks ago, his partner, with whom he has been for many years, was poisoned. He has an incredibly rare neurological condition called dystonia, and he is now suffering from brain damage. Andy is doing his best to take care of him, but all the stress of the last three months got to him and he had a massive seizure, breaking his arm in two places. His partner now uses a wheelchair and is also having seizures. His partner was also the sole financial provider for the family and obviously can no longer work. My best friend is struggling to keep afloat.
I have been an aid for folks with both physical and neurological disabilities for 6 years. I can help them. I just need to get there.
I’ve asked for money from tumblr before, to get to my friend’s funeral. Y’all saved me then, and I’m hoping beyond hope that lightening might strike twice. I need a good thing like you would not believe. And flying to Michigan to take care of my friends is that good thing.
I need help buying a plane ticket and making up for the week of work I’ll be missing. My partner and I are way below the poverty line and we could not pay rent if I missed a day of work. So. If you’re able and willing, please consider tossing me like 5 bucks to go take care of the platonic love of my life. If it makes you feel any better, we’re both queer and mad activists, he’s trans, and we’re poor. I’m not above exploiting identity politics to get to him.
here’s the link to my paypal. I don’t have the words to properly thank anyone who even considers donating, but thank you. Thank you.
Gus is just a thoroughly lovely person whose work in the world consistently impresses me & brings me joy. Consider throwing her some love & cash, folks.
Please donate to my friend Jayvin’s fundraiser to replace his stolen computer, and please spread the word about this campaign. Even $5-$10 donations help. EVERY PENNY COUNTS!
Jayvin is one of my nearest, dearest, and best beloved friends. We met as teenagers, and have known each other half our lives (!). I love him tremendously, and he is responsible for much of who I am today.
I could tell you a lot of awesome stories about Jayvin. I could wax rhapsodic about his tireless activism, his razor-sharp intellect, his wry wit, his great big tender heart, and his delicious mischievous smile. But mostly, I just wanna say this: It is the good and right thing to give back to people who devote their lives to building community and giving generously, as Jayvin has.
I love you, Fluffy. Let’s make this happen! <3
If you haven’t noticed, my posting volume has been quite of low as of late and here’s why: a week ago, my backpack was stolen out of my friend’s car; my backpack contained my laptop, my TI-89 calculator, and various other effects including my notes for my classes, and my prescriptions for aderall and dexodrine. (The notes included the calculus test I just completed on Monday. Needless to say I was pretty upset and felt pretty stupid.)
I’m currently in the process of replacing my laptop and doing so with my “GoFundMe” website. While I don’t expect everyone to cover the entire cost of my laptop, the way GoFundMe works, whatever people donate is instantly deposited into a midway account, (with the fee taken out of each donation, instead of one lump sum when I “reach my goal”,) and I can access the funds with or without reaching my goals.
I am going to give it a week or two before I take whatever’s in the account and use it toward funding my replacement laptop.
I’m currently raising $1,350.00 to replace my laptop, (with a refurbished Mac like I used to have, and get a copy of the Microsoft Suite for Mac). Even if you can’t donate, please reblog and share with people if you think it’s appropriate.
Here’s the link for my GoFundMe page: http://www.gofundme.com/Return-of-the-Mac
Thanks,
—J—
I’ve known the amazing Dylan Scholinski for going on 16 years (!). Above all, I have always been awed by Dylan’s immense generosity of spirit and his commitment to building community — especially for queer, trans, and gender-variant youth living at the margins (and I say this having met Dylan when I was 14; I am one of those queer kids whose life he changed). Dylan is just one of the most thoroughly GOOD people I have ever met. He puts his entire heart into every single thing he does. I am so blessed to know him, and so excited for this project. Give as much as you can, people, and please spread the word!
PLEASE SHARE PLEASE SPREAD AROUND PLEASE PLEASE REBLOG
Hi, Internet. My name’s Madison Lynn. I’m a queer trans lady in Detroit and I write a lot of poetry and I’m having a fundraiser so I don’t get evicted from my home.
The short sob story is: the past few months have…
My friend Nomy Lamm is an instigator, a revolutionary, a game-changer, and a totally tender-hearted sweetheart. You might know of her from such projects as I’m So Fucking Beautiful (deeply influential & life-changing fat-positive riot grrrl zine), The Transfused (a rock opera with The Need!), Nomy Lamm & The Whole Wide World (her touring band), or Sins Invalid (awesome performances by folks with disabilities & chronic illnesses). She’s even a Girl Talk alum (2009 and 2012!).
Anyway, I’m posting this because she is trying to raise $300 to help cover costs for her audition for The Voice!
In her words:
“i’ll be the genderqueer femme with the punk rock/klezmer/musical-theater stylings, tattoos, fake leg, and more fat on my body than most people have ever seen on tv ever in all their years combined of watching (prob only a slight exaggeration)… i’m psyched to show this bounty to the world, i would love the opportunity to perform for all those people, to sing with those awesome musicians, to adapt songs to fit me, to be weird and authentic and funny and sweet and inspirational… even if it was just for the blind auditions and didn’t get picked for a team, that would be awesome…”
As of 1:23AM on January 17th, she’s already raised $85, so there’s not too far to go at all. $5 and $10 donations go a long way!
Also, I’m tickled that my head makes a cameo appearance in this video. Watch the mirror for my nods/sighs/grooves. :)
Hello friends (especially those of you in the helping professions): I’ve got a dear friend who has been hit by the double-whammy of a death in the family and another close family member getting diagnosed with cancer all in the same week. They are looking for support & resources around both the grieving process and being one of the main folks on the support team for a person with cancer. They’ve asked me to post this note to my network to see if I can help gather up some resources for them. So: Do any of you know of anything along those lines? Local resources that are more in-person are awesome (support groups, discussion groups, etc), but books and internet resources are also fabulous. Thanks so much!
Jordan was last seen yesterday (12/12/12) around 4PM in Downtown Oakland. We need help with shifts to look for her. Other ways to help are to spread this poster online and making copies/posting them around Oakland and Berkeley. Call us at the numbers above to coordinate. Thank you.
Please, please spread the word on this and help get Jordan home, people.
Signal-boosting! Help Jordan get home!!!
Hey internet,
So I know I just asked you for money to replace my stolen shit, but that was when the worst thing that had happened to me was a jacked laptop. Now I’m asking you for money for a much more serious reason.
On Monday (yes, three days after our house was broken into), one of my close…
Aurora is so wonderful. Please help out!
[SUPPORT AURORA LEVINS MORALES: Puerto Rican/ Jewish disabled feminist writer, theorist and badass!!!]
before realizing my own political consciousness around disability and chronic illness, i read MEDICINE STORIES. now, everyday as i face barriers alone and with community, Aurora’s work has seriously grounded and validated my ache and triumphs. we cannot rely on the medical industrial complex as qtpoc people! support your healers, chronically ill, genius, queer women of color of your community, friends. support Aurora Levins Morales, PLEASE! you have $5? contribute to her sustainability and the true impact of her necessary political and artistic work. thank you for reading. also see: http://www.wloe.org/Others.171.0.html
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support beloved Puerto Rican/ Jewish disabled feminist writer, theorist and badass Aurora Levins Morales: “dear community—i am entering my 5th week of severe low back pain, and have been unable to leave my bed at all since Sept 27, which means I’m back to diapers for the fist time since 1956. I am slowly healing, with the help of a chiropractor who makes house calls, but need many hours of care a day. In the past few weeks I have used up my health care reserve fund,and have gone from paying for 20 hours a week of attendant care to 14 hours a day, plus $750 in uncovered direct health care costs a week. I may eventually be able to recover some of that, but I have to shell it out now. Every week I get emails thanking me for the impact of my writing on people’s lives, people who don’t know my body is literally coming apart at the pelvis, or that I struggle with chronic illness and poverty every day. I would love to finish my novel, and write my new book about putting our bodies at the center of our liberation work, but to d that, I need you. my community, to help me keep body, mind and spirit together. If you’re able, please send me some money (paypal—aurora@historica.us) and if you can’t, ask a friend who can to do it for you. Please forward this everywhere. Paste it into emails, get the word out to the people who already love what I do, and the one who would if they knew about it. Thanks.- Aurora”
(via bravenewgirls)
This is all scary, but this is great info to have nonetheless (although, boo to putting “brutal” in quotes — c’mon, guys, really?). Otherwise, thank you MissionLocal for being informative & comprehensive!
Also, more info regarding these cases here at SFist (um, again, BOO on sfist for putting “violent” in quotes), and here at MissionMission.
As I said before: I’m praying today for an end to ALL sexual assault & abuse, and for safe streets for ALL of us.
Please consider throwing some love & money towards Handbasket Productions this year! They are by far my favorite smutty employer (I’m in both of their currently available DVDs, Doing It Ourselves and The Genderfellator!) & an excellent emporium of smart smut. Get yourself or a love a video or a zine. You won’t regret it, I promise. :)
BAYERIA PEOPLES: Do you know anything about the Vulcan Lofts live/work artist community warehouse/loft/co-op/etc situation in East Oakland? A friend looked at a room there today and is considering moving in, but if there are any issues with the Vulcan Lofts, he’d of course love to know before he takes the leap. Got any help/inside info? Thanks!