Gina

Hi there, I'm Gina.

This blog serves many purposes for me -- sharing new writing & works in progress, keeping in touch with old friends, making new friends, and keeping an eye on what's happening on the interwebs. But mostly? It's where I blow off steam from graduate school and talk about which David Bowie song is the queerest. ;)

If you wanna know more about me, check out my website for info about the work that I do in the world.

If you're here because you're a fan of my writing, I recommend checking out How To Have A Body for a peek at my current manuscript in progress.

Thanks for stopping by my little corner of the internet. Enjoy your stay.
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  • every tumblr post i make over the next two weeks is probably gonna include the phrase “speaking of how to have a body!”

    There is nothing like the intense pressure of intense deadlines for a book that is kinda about an intense break-up but really mostly about your intense relationship with your body & the world to make you, well… Intensely aware of your body. You know?

    I mean this in a good way. I feel more in my skin, more comfortable, happier, hotter & more desirable than I have in ages. Some of this is about some recent experiences of feeling appreciated & desired in various ways. But it’s way bigger than that, too. It’s about an internal shift.

    I left the house in a tight strappy tank top, a very short miniskirt, bare legs, & sparkly shoes today. Glitter on my eyelids, lipstick on my lips. These might not be brave fashion choices for someone else, but they are extremely brave fashion choices for me, especially considering my past year.

    I feel back to my real self and I feel braver, basically. It’s been a long time coming.

    • 1 month ago
    • 2 notes
    • #personal life
    • #metablogging
    • #how to have a body
    • #writing process
    • #MY EMOTIONS!
    • #feels
    • #femme
    • #fat
    • #fatshion
    • #embodiment
    • #about fucking time
    • #brave
    • #Hell Yes!
    • #Saturn Return
    • #welcome to 30
    2 Comments
  • My outfit for F.A.G.G.O.T.S.: The Musical! I did not realize this shirt was quite so see-thru, wow. At least I’m wearing a cute bra?Plz excuse the cruddy photobooth quality & my messy bedroom.

    My outfit for F.A.G.G.O.T.S.: The Musical! I did not realize this shirt was quite so see-thru, wow. At least I’m wearing a cute bra?

    Plz excuse the cruddy photobooth quality & my messy bedroom.

    • 2 months ago
    • 8 notes
    • #fatshion
    • #selfies
    • #f.a.g.g.o.t.s.: the musical!
    • #femme
    • #genderqueer
    • #personal life
    • #fat femmes
    8 Comments
  • I found this gorgeous necklace at a sleepy little store on 18th Street, on my walk home thru The Mission tonight. It is smokey quartz!I almost never buy myself jewelry. This is mostly a class thing. I am an artist and a femme and a lover of most things that are bright and glamourous and beautiful, and still: It is really really really incredibly hard for me to justify getting myself a pretty thing just for the sake of having a pretty thing! When I have any extra money (and extra means “beyond my incredibly modest baseline grad student + working artist + hustler budget”), I’m usually either in a mind-set of “Great, what debt can I pay off now?” or “Yay, Savings!!!”Also, on the rare occasions that I have bothered to get myself a bauble, it’s usually been either hella cheap super flashy draggy stuff (flowers! feathers! sequins! glitter!), or more steampunky stuff. I love old typewriter key necklaces and necklaces made out of dictionary cut-outs and sheet music cut-outs and map cut-outs, necklaces made out of compasses and old watch faces, those kinds of things. I think that this has to do with being a writer and also just being nerdy, in some ways. I love wearing words and wearing writing & thinking utensils. (This is also why I have two text tattoos.)But this necklace, I dunno. It just kinda sung at me, and it was surprisingly cheap. And I’m trying to do nice things for myself every once in awhile Financial Scarcity Issues be damned. So why not, right?Happy belated birthday to myself, I guess.

    I found this gorgeous necklace at a sleepy little store on 18th Street, on my walk home thru The Mission tonight. It is smokey quartz!

    I almost never buy myself jewelry. This is mostly a class thing. I am an artist and a femme and a lover of most things that are bright and glamourous and beautiful, and still: It is really really really incredibly hard for me to justify getting myself a pretty thing just for the sake of having a pretty thing! When I have any extra money (and extra means “beyond my incredibly modest baseline grad student + working artist + hustler budget”), I’m usually either in a mind-set of “Great, what debt can I pay off now?” or “Yay, Savings!!!”

    Also, on the rare occasions that I have bothered to get myself a bauble, it’s usually been either hella cheap super flashy draggy stuff (flowers! feathers! sequins! glitter!), or more steampunky stuff. I love old typewriter key necklaces and necklaces made out of dictionary cut-outs and sheet music cut-outs and map cut-outs, necklaces made out of compasses and old watch faces, those kinds of things. I think that this has to do with being a writer and also just being nerdy, in some ways. I love wearing words and wearing writing & thinking utensils. (This is also why I have two text tattoos.)

    But this necklace, I dunno. It just kinda sung at me, and it was surprisingly cheap. And I’m trying to do nice things for myself every once in awhile Financial Scarcity Issues be damned. So why not, right?

    Happy belated birthday to myself, I guess.

    • 3 months ago
    • 7 notes
    • #femme
    • #fatshion
    • #jewelry
    • #personal life
    • #birthday
    • #selfies
    • #perfect day
    • #Treat Yo' Self!
    • #class
    • #30
    • #working-class femmes
    • #baubles
    • #pretty things
    7 Comments
  • These are possibly the coolest tights I have ever seen. They are works of art, for serious. Teja Jamilla makes this amazing legwear in a bunch of sizes & colors. It looks like you can even custom order them.

    I want the pink sea creature tights (but in Size Large). And the fob & skeleton key tights in pretty much any color. And and and and and…

    I don’t have it in my budget to splurge on pretty tights at the moment, but these are first on the list when some extra cash comes my way. Wow.

    • 7 months ago
    • 89 notes
    • #Teja Jamilla
    • #tights
    • #fatshion
    • #sea creatures
    • #fobs
    • #skeleton keys
    • #pocket watches
    • #fashion as art
    89 Comments
  • Outfit at tonight’s skool party. Such a fun night!

    • 1 year ago
    • 5 notes
    • #school
    • #gradskool
    • #personal life
    • #fatshion
    5 Comments
  • IMPORTANT FATSHION TIMEZ: I’ve sorta hated florals for years and have rotated them out of my wardrobe because they don’t feel, well, tough enough. I’m 4’11” and fat and have a baby-face, and while I know theoretically that Short and Fat and Baby-Face can equal Tough As Nails, well, all of that plus Florals just feels a bit too… Dowdy? Cutesy? Like I end up looking either 8 or 80? My general go to outfits, even if they are very simple (like, a scoopneck tee & a denim skirt, which is generally what I wear if I’m not Gettin’ Fancy), are still Protective Armor-y Tough Femme Clothing.But anyway, my point — this outfit, and this article, they are totally making me look at florals differently. Like, this person’s outfit in particular is BOSS. So maybe I can try wearing florals again? This is kind of exciting!
haute-proportions:

My blog post on Hard Florals is finally finished. For the love of god, have a look at it before I lose my sanity altogether…
Picture by Aine Walker
http://hauteproportions.blogspot.com/2012/04/hard-florals.html

    IMPORTANT FATSHION TIMEZ:

    I’ve sorta hated florals for years and have rotated them out of my wardrobe because they don’t feel, well, tough enough. I’m 4’11” and fat and have a baby-face, and while I know theoretically that Short and Fat and Baby-Face can equal Tough As Nails, well, all of that plus Florals just feels a bit too… Dowdy? Cutesy? Like I end up looking either 8 or 80? My general go to outfits, even if they are very simple (like, a scoopneck tee & a denim skirt, which is generally what I wear if I’m not Gettin’ Fancy), are still Protective Armor-y Tough Femme Clothing.

    But anyway, my point — this outfit, and this article, they are totally making me look at florals differently. Like, this person’s outfit in particular is BOSS. So maybe I can try wearing florals again?

    This is kind of exciting!

    haute-proportions:

    My blog post on Hard Florals is finally finished. For the love of god, have a look at it before I lose my sanity altogether…

    Picture by Aine Walker

    http://hauteproportions.blogspot.com/2012/04/hard-florals.html

    (via fuckyeahhardfemme)

    Source: hauteproportions
    • 1 year ago
    • 122 notes
    • #hard femme
    • #hard florals
    • #fatshion
    122 Comments
  • and the show GOES ON.

    (i fucking bought these fingerless leather gloves WITH RUFFLES from dark garden today. absolutely frivolous, but absolutely worth it.)

    • 1 year ago
    • 31 notes
    • #fashion
    • #fatshion
    • #fetish
    • #fingerless gloves WITH RUFFLES
    • #ruffles!!!
    • #retail therapy
    31 Comments
  • Nomy & I had a study date today where we accidentally dressed like twins. True Story.

    Nomy & I had a study date today where we accidentally dressed like twins. True Story.

    • 1 year ago
    • 6 notes
    • #true stories
    • #nomy
    • #friendlies
    • #personal life
    • #fatshion
    • #femme
    • #dresses
    6 Comments
  • a question & a vacation update

    HELLO NYC FAT FEMMES and NYC fat femme appreciators: Where should I go for cute plus-size lingerie? I am looking for both cute/sexy/fashion-y bras & function-y bras. I figure if any city has what I am looking for, it’s New York. Are there places other than Orchard Corsets? (I recall their selection not being awesome, but the last time I went there was also 5 years ago).

    In other news:
    * Portland was awesome.
    * Seattle was awesome but all too brief. I will spend more time there next time!
    * I am in NYC and have, in the past 24 hrs, enjoyed things like curried goat & callilou bread & patties delivered to my (host’s) door, mascarpone gelato, and FREE LAURIE ANDERSON CONCERTS IN THE PARK with special guest appearances by Lou Reed. Holy wow, NYC. Way to impress a lady.

    • 1 year ago
    • 3 notes
    • #personal life
    • #food
    • #portland
    • #seattle
    • #nyc
    • #melissa
    • #curried goat
    • #mascarpone gelato
    • #lingerie
    • #fatshion
    • #laurie anderson
    • #lou reed
    3 Comments
  • God, I spent way too much money on this shirt today. But it’s also kinda The Best Thing Ever. The pink & the QUEEN reference & the fat girl on the bike? I’m considering it a birthday treat to myself. I’m pretty pleased. :)

    • 2 years ago
    • 4 notes
    • #birthday
    • #fat bottomed girls
    • #queen
    • #bicycles
    • #pink!
    • #fatshion
    4 Comments
  • What, I made it onto the FemmeStyles blog?!

    I am just full of awe & “awwww!” today. Way to make me feel like a million bucks when I’m stuck home with a cold, world. <3

    • 2 years ago
    • 1 notes
    • #femmestyles
    • #femme
    • #fatshion
    • #queer
    • #vanity
    • #aww
    1 Comments
  • “Girl, you need to DOCUMENT that outfit!” — Colin.

    • 2 years ago
    • 9 notes
    • #Xmas Eve
    • #vanity
    • #Colin
    • #friendlies
    • #femme
    • #fatshion
    9 Comments
  • The dress matches the glasses matches the labret.
This outfit also matches my shoes. If only my laptop&#8217;s camera could catch my shoes!

    The dress matches the glasses matches the labret.

    This outfit also matches my shoes. If only my laptop’s camera could catch my shoes!

    • 2 years ago
    • 3 notes
    • #femme
    • #vanity
    • #glitter
    • #fatshion
    3 Comments
  • It&#8217;s apparently Kindercore Day over here at Ginaland Headquarters. I&#8217;m also doing homework to Live Through This.

    It’s apparently Kindercore Day over here at Ginaland Headquarters. I’m also doing homework to Live Through This.

    • 2 years ago
    • 1 notes
    • #personal life
    • #vanity
    • #fatshion
    • #leg warmers
    • #pink!
    1 Comments
  • “It’s funny that youth-centric companies like American Apparel are so fascist about the size of the women they’ll cater to, but are much more permissive when it comes to their male clientele……I will wear the shit out of your stupid clothes, and so will others like me. Your assumptions that fat people are too poor or stupid or uncultured or uncool to be worthy of shopping at your stores are discriminatory and unfounded. Now give us your ridiculous pants while we’re still young enough to want them.”
    — April Flores, plus size erotic model & performer pissing on American Apparel for telling her that she is not their demographic. (via fuckyeahfemmes, marzipanslabyrinth)
    Source: marzipanslabyrinth
    • 2 years ago
    • 40 notes
    • #april flores
    • #fatty d
    • #fatshion
    40 Comments
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